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Wednesday, December 21, 2005

i think.

you know how they say that relationships are unfair because theres bound to be one party who inevitably loves the other party more? i think it kinda applies to friendships as well. between 2 close friends, theres bound to be one of them who just treats the other party as one of the many good friends he/she has. while the other treats he/she has a close confidant and pal.

two very good friends, or rather even best friends; their way of treating each other and regarding each other may not always be on par. for example, A may care for B more than B cares for A. A calls B up to keep in touch every now and then, calling him to hang out and catch a movie or something. well it doesn't mean B doesn't give a damn for A though. B probably treats A as a good friend but just doesn't cherish him as much and doesn't take the initiative to let their friendship grow and for them to bond closer. you could even say, B probably wouldn't even initiate a conversation with A unless A begins it first. If A doesn't keep in touch, B would even leave the friendship to dangle on a string and remain stagnant and eventually move on with his own life.

a friendship should require both parties taking the initiatives and not just rely solely on one party to maintain the friendship. whatever. B will eventually get sick and tired and move on with life. or continue enduring the irregular cold and hot treatments from A.

oh oh the best way is not to invest too much feelings and always be prepared to let go anytime, anywhere.
good times don't last anyway.

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